Archive | July 2015

20 Clues to Mr. Right or Not

What is the packaging of a man, for single Women?  That’s when women get too caught up in the package a man is wrapped in instead of focusing on his inward character.  You have to rewire your thinking.  Please understand that the character of a man, is who you will have to live with!  It’s like a shiny car , it looks good but the engine needs work!

Most women have their package in mind consciously or subconsciously and it goes something like this.  I want him to look like George Cloony,or Brad Pitt, has money like Bill Gates, a body like “Magic Mike” a Christian, a smile like Tom Cruise, etc…  Sound about right?  Ladies I’m going to burst your bubble there are no “Perfect Model men”.  You are dreaming!!  Come out of the dream world and come back down to earth.




Talk to God and pray about the type of man you’d like as your husband .  You may not get everything you want, because often times the things we want are not good for us.  However, God will give you the type of husband you need that’s perfect for you.  Trust God to bring the right man into your life.  Insanity is doing the same things over and over and expecting a different result.






Think like a Christian Man for Single Women


Single women,Christian Men give you awesome advice about

building relationships that lead to marriage.  Straight from his mouth to your ears.

When you want good useful advice about men, stop getting misguided advice

from your girlfriends ask a MAN.  Nobody knows better what a man is thinking than a Man.

So listen up!  Click the videos below. Please enjoy “Think like a christian Man”

and “Let your husband find you” Click below.








Teen Girls, What young Christian men think about you!


Listen up!  Teen girls and college aged young ladies. Young teen and college Christian aged men speak out about what they think about you!  Your appearance, and what they look for in a girlfriend or future wife.  A rare opportunity to find out what “he’s thinking”.  You get to be a fly on the wall during guy talk.

If you have a teen girl in your life be it your daughter or perhaps a teen girl your mentoring, share these videos with them.  Don’t worry “Single Women” we didn’t leave you out. Don’t miss tomorrow’s post where “Christian Men” talk, “Think Like a Christian Man”  Click the videos below and Enjoy.









Christian Teen girls, Self image and the Deception of the Media



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Trying to live up to the unattainable standard of beauty in western culture that doesn’t exist. The media is deceiving you.

Take what you have and do the best you can with it!  The man that will love and take you as his wife, thinks you’re beautiful and loves and accepts you just the way you are.  Need to lose weight?  Cut out the junk food, lower your calorie intake, drink more water, and exercise It’s not about being skinny.

It’s about being a healthy weight for your body.  Be healthy.  There’s nothing wrong with wanting to look good and to enhance your natural beauty with makeup or wanting to be fit.  The problem comes when girls start obsessing over themselves to the point of eating disorders, negative self image, surgeries, excessive makeup, or the new “permanent makeup”, body injections, botox, etc…



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You are beautiful


Domestic Violence

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Smart Christian’s Woman’s Guide to Life Love and Fulfillment book wants God’s women to be safe.

In addition to scripture and God’s word, the book also speaks to women’s issues , such as Rape, Homelessness, Hunger, Domestic Violence, and Drug Abuse.

You have to meet people where they are , before you can guide them to where they should be. The book lists local  outreach help across the U.S. for every major city.  Be strong.  Speak out.  Remove yourself from harm’s way! And if you’re being physically abused, please take a stand and press charges with the local authorities!

Go to your local library or a friend’s house to use a computer and get privacy, to make your next move of escape. This is especially true if there are children involved.

Go to and search for a shelter by state. They take women and children from abused families. Also go to

Christian Coalition Against Domestic Abuse. They are a good resource to help you going forward. The start of a NEW life violence free should motivate you to take the steps necessary to bring you and your children to safety. Making major changes are scary , but the Lord will be with you.



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