I am More than Enough.
I am More than meets the Eye.
I am More than worthy of Love.
I am More precious than Jewels.
1 John 4:4
You dear children are from God, and you have overcome them because the one that is in you is greater than the one who is in the world!
I researched this topic through men’s publications and came up with a solid list of what men consider to be a good wife. You can also do this yourself. Take a look at men’s lifestyle magazines and blogs to find out what they are thinking.
The Wife List
1. She shares your beliefs.
2. She’s trustworthy.
3. She has ambition.
4. She gets along with family and friends.
5. She’s selfless attractive and smart.
6. She’s responsible.
7. She loves you unconditionally.
8. She is domestically inclined.
9. She’s healthy and fit.
10. She has an overall positivity toward life.
Radiates Love, Warmth, Beauty and Grace.
Proverbs 18:22; He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.
Genesis 2:8; The Lord God said “It is not good for a man to be alone. I will make him a helper suitable to him.”
Proverbs 19:14; Houses and wealth are inherited from parents but a prudent wife is from the lord.
Look at Proverbs 18:22 It says he who FINDS a wife. It’s saying that when the man meets the woman she should already be wife material. Some women are just not wife material nor will they ever be. It takes an unselfish, disciplined, willingness to share your life with someone.
Ask not! what this relationship can do for you, but instead what can I bring to this relationship. (I know, I know, Robert F. Kennedy, just go with it), Read my post on 10 qualities of a good wife from a man’s point of view.
We can’t give away what we don’t have. In order to receive love we must give love and to give love you have to have it within. The law of attraction says we attract what we are. If your a kind and loving person, pleasant to be around and encouraging, you’re going to attract those kinds of people. We must first love ourselves with a healthy attitude about self not a haughty attitude but an attitude of a grateful heart, humble, and pliable unto God.
For our outward appearance which is especially true for women, look at yourselves in the mirror and accept yourself just as you are your good points, your flaws, and know that you are fearfully and wonderfully made. You are much more than flesh, you are spirit. Your spirit is going to live long after your body is gone.
While here on earth what kind of spirit do you want to have? The kind that builds people up, or a negative spirit that tears down. I want my spirit to reflect light, love and life. Galatians 5:22, “The fruits of the spirit are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness and faithfulness.”