We can’t give away what we don’t have. In order to receive love we must give love and to give love you have to have it within. The law of attraction says we attract what we are. If your a kind and loving person, pleasant to be around and encouraging, you’re going to attract those kinds of people. We must first love ourselves with a healthy attitude about self not a haughty attitude but an attitude of a grateful heart, humble, and pliable unto God.
For our outward appearance which is especially true for women, look at yourselves in the mirror and accept yourself just as you are your good points, your flaws, and know that you are fearfully and wonderfully made. You are much more than flesh, you are spirit. Your spirit is going to live long after your body is gone.
While here on earth what kind of spirit do you want to have? The kind that builds people up, or a negative spirit that tears down. I want my spirit to reflect light, love and life. Galatians 5:22, “The fruits of the spirit are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness and faithfulness.”