Smart Christian Women know that they are valuable! A woman conveys her worth to a man when she makes him wait. Einstein said insanity is doing the same thing over and over, expecting a different result. How many times have you given your heart and body to a man only to have him ghost you? The woman is left devastated and broken. Or worse you spend years with a man, living with him giving him all the benefits of marriage, only to have it end. Eventually she heals, moves on to another man and repeats the same scenario.
Only because she mistakenly believes that that’s the way to get a man to stay. The devil is a liar! Don’t let him fool you! You know for yourself that doesn’t work because you’ve tested it. Like a loving father God wants to protect his daughters from from guys like the last guy who broke your heart.
He has given you something sacred, special, life giving, to be shared with your husband in the bonds of matrimony. He wants you to have the security and stability you crave! It’s time for women to have more satisfying relationships!
But you must begin to think differently and handle men differently! The man that’s so-called scared off by you waiting until marriage is NOT the guy for you anyway! He’s been sent by the enemy to seduce and distract you from getting the real life that God has for you.
But I know you’re smarter than that and that’s why the bible says “Wisdom is better than silver and Gold!” You know what a man likes almost as much as SEX? A Challenge!!!! They are competition driven. Sports, games, business, and yes women. The problem is there’s not much challenge left with women today.
Sex is Easy! There has to be something that distinguishes you from OTHER women! And if he wants you he will rise to the challenge. When my husband and I met and started dating he wanted to wait for marriage, it was his idea. He’s a Christian man with Christian values, and I really admired that.
That’s how I knew he was the one. He wanted me to know he was the real deal. It was an awesome courtship and the best experience getting to know each other, knowing where the relationship was headed. It was wonderful to know I was with the man God had for me!
When a man is willing to wait and honor the woman and honor the relationship, it is a gift from God! Granted men like that are rare but that doesn’t mean you stop valuing yourself or lower your standards. The right man will meet you on your level.
Sex inside marriage is the most amazing sexual experience of my entire Life!! I thought it was just me having unbelievable sex. It turns out there are research studies like the report from the “Journal Of Family Psychology” that says “those who waited for marriage were happier with the quality of sex in their relationship.” Remember, “Love is Patient, Love is kind it does not insist on it’s own way” 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8.
8 Benefits of delaying sex until marriage for the Woman
- It keeps God at the center of your relationship. You honor God with your relationship and He in turn blesses you.
- You know you’re with the man God has for you
- You can experience true love, security and stability, within the bonds of matrimony
- Experience heightened pleasure and sexual freedom
- You Have a solid foundation from which to build on
- You guard your heart and emotions from men and stop suffering heartbreak
- You maintain your dignity and respect for your body
- You experience The Ultimate sexual experience in love
Smart Tip Of the Day: You will never be truly satisfied in the lusts of the flesh, because it’s not God’s way. Your Best sexual experience, ultimate expression of love, and most satisfying relationship is waiting for you inside marriage!
God’s Women deserve the Best and women all over the world are learning that God’s way is the best Way! My prayer for SCW women is that all of you will experience the best God has for you in every aspect of your life, love, relationships, and sexual expression. Amen.
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