In order for there to be real love between two people, there has to be a spiritual connection. A physical relationship without the spiritual connection is like a body with no soul and as a result women are left feeling empty. A woman must first have a healthy respect for herself. Self respect is number one and valuing yourself enough to require that you you be treated with respect by a man. So how does a woman go about doing this?
4 Ways to communicate the self-respect you have for yourself
and that you require from a man
1. Self control – Let the man pursue you. The woman that’s consistently calling, texting, all the time is his groupie and thus not interesting.
2. Be OK with being alone – That doesn’t mean you give up on finding love. Make up your mind that I’d rather be alone than to be treated poorly or less than I deserve. It takes the pressure off finding someone, you relax and let it happen naturally in God’s timing. In the meantime work on being the best you can be and knowing that the right man will be lucky to have you.
3. Don’t appear desperate – Be willing to walk away if it’s not working for you, as opposed to holding on to a relationship that’s going nowhere or no where good or both.
4. Show him you value yourself by requiring he treat you with respect. You show him that by not allowing yourself to be used like the others. As long as you’re leading with the physical you’ll not get beyond that place. Let Love In!
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